Hi

[Tam@->---]

well I am off to Tamworth in about 2 hours, and Im not really up for the idea of it! Tell you the truth Im a little worried about it all, the dr has been telling my mum for ages that she is having a serious operation and mentioned the possibility of dying and then the waiting game for the results of the biopsy! I have been telling mum they have to say things like that, but that any operation runs that risk so not to worry..... probably appeared such a heartless ****** actually.... but today Im a little worried, i know she will fine deep down, that inkling of uncertainty. Goodness!! what if she isnt?


anyways i better get myself together and get ready to appear strong for mum who I know is massively worried.... even if she doesnt say it out loud!

she gets operated on tomorrow at 3pm, i will not be home until late afternoon the day after for work..... then go back on the weekend so let you know how things go Tuesday night

Hugs to you all

Tam

[Lily]

(((((((((((((((Tam's mum & Tam))))))))))))))))))

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Tam you wouldnt be human if you didnt feel like this about her op, it hits home right now that its so close.

Sending huge hugs for you and Mum, she will be in good hands and we are all hoping everything goes well. Take care of you too Tam, this is a pretty emotionally and physically gruelling time for you.

Let us know how it goes and try and catch some zzzzzzzzz in a quiet moment up there and dont forget ur sunscreen under those hospital lights style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tongue.gif

love
Lily

[CarolMc]

style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/foryou.gif Hugs and best wishes to you and your Mum, Tam. Hope all goes well.
Be well,
CarolMc.x

[Joandublin]

Tam
Sending bucket loads of strength and very best wishes for the best possible outcome for your Mam.

Will be thinking of you all

Take care
Luv n stuff
Joan style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/flowers.gif

[pauline1946]

it's your mom tam,of course you will worry.
hugs & prayers.
remember to take care of you,

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( (HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) )))))))

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[Pollyanna]

(((((((((((((((((Tam)))))))))))))))))

Sending hugs for you and your mum. I'll add my prayers to those already sent that all goes well and your mum will recover nicely and you don't flare. style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif

Take care. style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wub.gif Pollyanna

[raggedyann1]

Tam,

My double strength cyber hugs for you and your mum
((((((((((((((((((((((( style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif ))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Luv ya,
Karen

[frono]

Tammy--I's sending lots of hugs and good wishes your way. I hope everyting goes well and you mom is in recovery before you know it.

Tiercy

[Suzan]

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Tammy

You and your Mum have been in my thoughts and prayers. Sending extra
special wishes and style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif for a most favorable and speedy recovery.
Please, take care of you , also!!

Lubs
Suzan style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/flowers.gif </span></span></span>

[Tom]

I hope everything goes well Tammy. style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif The stress of something like this is the hardest sometimes. Take care and try not to worry unless it's absolutely necessary.

Good luck to you both. style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/clover.gif

[Tam@->---]

Thanks cherubs hugs and so forth all appreciated!

I got home last night, after reluctantly leaving my mum in a very drugged up state! They assure me everything in the op went as expected, she has a cut about 30cm long, which I didnt expect!! But she is doing ok, was nausious today but she is on morphine and pretty dopey(not a good term to use, but you understand what I mean)

On my way home we got pushed over on the road due to some tosser cuting the corner on a bend the option was hit the car or hit the pot holes(nasty ones too) which left us (my mums friend Tammy, her daughter and myself) stranded on the road for ages till someone pulled over to give us a hand or at least ring for road side assistance... as we were out of service range.. in the middle of no where:-s

some three ish hours later we were back on the road! we thought we'd busted the axle or something but we had bent the tyre rim! anyways I didnt sleep so well last night but was up ready to go to work, when i went to chevck on my max(labrador) well he wasnt able to walk well and so I made a bedding thing up checked him yaddah yaddah freaked out, but still had to get to work.....was coming home first break to get to the vet with him he wasnt in obvious pain cause he didnt flinch or whimper or anything.... on my way to work I stopped at the tyre place need to get a new rim (mag)(expected)need a wheel alignment and balance as terrible vibration in the steering.....all needs to be repaired in 2 days so I can get back to mum and to my farewell friday night from my last school... was stressing slightly but thought it will be ok! But then on my way to work I was doing maybe 10km an hour before i turned into work and hit a bird!!! Sounds silly, but it was the hitting of the bird that made me teary..... then a colleague said Hey Tam, how ya doing and I broke down!! I got sent home!

Took my baby to the vet, she is pretty sure he has done something to his knee, given him antinflammatores and some injection which he is to get 1 every week for 4 weeks!
I am to keep him confined and as calm as possible! If you knew my baby he is an exciteable character and is like he is on hyper beans 24/7, but i feel somewhat better knowing he is going to be ok!!!

I have to go get wheel balance etc done round lunch time.... feel bad im not at work... I just seen a friend said I might get to work, she told me if i did she would kick me hard style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/ohmy.gif so im doing as she said and coming home to try get me some sleep, apparently i look crappy!!! Nice to know!!!

but wanted to fill you in on the latest and thats my story to date


hugs!!

Me xoxox

[macfamily53]

Dear Tam

You poor thing you have been trough so much. I am so sorry and hope mum gets better soon and things start turning around quickly for you. I will be saying my prayers for speedy recovery for mum and that you stay healthy through all this to or as healthy as you can anyway.Take care adn let us know and update please on you both.

Tammy mac style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif to u and mum

[keebler]

<span style="font-family:Georgia"><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:100%"><span style="color:#3333FF">Tam,
I am sorry you have gone threw so much. style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/sad.gif Having the stress of your mum's surgery! You and your mom are in my prayers.

Wow what a time you had coming home. style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/ohmy.gif I am glad you had company with you while you were on the side of the road.(glad you didn't sit there all by yourself, out in the middle of no where) Then to have your baby sick. style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/sad.gif
Im sending you lots of big gentle hugs! style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif Take care and get some well deserve sleep. style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/asleep.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/asleep.gif
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Keebler</span></span></span>

[Pickles]

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OH MY, When it rains it pours!! seems like you had a very bad week!!I hope it will get better and you, your mom and your doggie will be all better soon!!! Take Care and keep us posted style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/ok.gif

[Jen79]

HUGS Tam , I am sorry you are having a bad week. I hope your mother and dog gets better. style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/foryou.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/foryou.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/foryou.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/foryou.gif

[bugsy]

<span style="color:#CC33CC"><span style="font-size:11pt;line-height:100%">Hiya Tam style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wavey.gif

OMG Tam it sounds like you have had a few days from **** no wonder you are stressing - firstly don't worry about work it will still be there when everything as calmed down hun. As for your mum i am so pleased that the operation went as planned, your mum is in my thoughts for a speedy recovery - you are also in my thoughts too Tam it is a tough time that you are going thru right now.

I am sending good luck style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/clover.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/clover.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/clover.gif vibes style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/goodvibes.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/goodvibes.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/goodvibes.gif for you your mum and your baby - try to take some tam time you need to look after yourself as when your mum gets home she is gonna need alot of your care and attention - plus you have Max to keep calm and take to the vets each week.

Take good care of yourself - love hugs and best wishes to you style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/clover.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/clover.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/clover.gif </span></span>

[Lily]

(((((((((((((((Tam)))))))))))) style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif

You never do things easy do you style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/sad.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tongue.gif

I'm so glad your Mum's op went ok but geesh you could have done without all the added extras style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif and one for Max and Mum also style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tongue.gif

love
Lily

[Clare.T]

Oh (((((((((((Tam))))))))))))))))) , what a rough time you are having.

All best wishes to your mum and yourself and many hugs



Clare style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif

[birdie]

lots and lots of gentle hugs for you and mum. I hope mum is OK and you make sure you don't flare with all the stress and worry, look after yourself too. when you do things you certainly never do things by half do you. Hope to catch you soon.

take care style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/foryou.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/foryou.gif

birdie

[Tam@->---]

just thought id let you all know mum is now home... she is sore and still has the staples in, but she is home and so thats the main thing!

Im ******ed clocked up alot of km this last 10 days and only 6 days till the holidays so bring that on.... night night this duckie is going to bed mwahhhhhhhh


xoxox

[lin]

<span style="color:#33CC00"><span style="font-family:Arial">OMG Tammy, what a time of it you have had,,,,,,,,,,, So sorry ,,,,,,Glad mum's home hope things improve by the day hun, and as for the car trying to run you off Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! wants his back side smacking thought i wont swear style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/blink.gif ........

Tammy you take things easy lovey, give my love To mum big big ((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))
my little ausie Friend ketchup girl style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.gif luv Lin xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/foryou.gif style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/foryou.gif </span></span>

[Suzan]

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Tammy

I continue to keep Mum and you in my thoughts and prayers....I am glad that her surgery went
well...and prayers also for a smooth and speedy recovery! I am also including Max in my prayers
poor ******...hope the injections do him well.

Holidays just days away...please take time for much needed rest...perhaps as Mum naps ..Tammy will
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(((((Mum))))) ((((((Tammy))))))) and ((((((Max))))))

Take good care, Chickadoodles!!!

Fondly
Suzan style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/flowers.gif

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[raggedyann1]

Tam,

(((((((((((((((((((((((((( style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/hugbetter.gif ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

That is one of my double strength cyber hugs for you. I am sorry I haven't seen your post with the updates until now. I am glad they sent you home that day. Pace yourself as best as possible so that you can enjoy your hols.

Luv ya,
Karen