Going out tonight...

[Joz]

I no i should be excited about going out but i cant help but worry bout how im going to feel tomorrow, i know il be geting over it for days, im 18 and get so frustrated at not being like my friends, they could probably go out every night of the weeekend and still go to work on monday :p i dont drink anything when i go out but i still feel worse than them! but then if im honest ive never wanted to be a big party animal but it would be nice to have the choice!do u no wot i mean?? im just having a bit of a moan really. Would be nice to no how you all deal with this? xxx :)

[zara]

Have fun, Joz! Take it easy though and try to stay away for the smokers. I have bad lungs now so I can't handle them. Sometimes a night of fun is worth a few days of recovery.

[jude mack]

Hey Joz

Go out and have yourself a great time. I am going out tonight as well, I know I'll pay for it for a few days, but sometimes we just have to have fun. Try not to worry about tomorrow, tomorrow will take care of itself.

Hugs Jude:)

[mooks]

hey i know how you feel...i went out tonite and came home at 9!! cos i just felt so rubbish and i was sitting there on a stall..back killing me..legs dying in heals...and i just walked home crying cos i was so knackered...gay huh. hope your night is more successful!!! xxxxxxxxxxxx

[hattycat]

hi joz

I'm 17 and just went out to a private party from 8 - 1 at a nightclub were i live. I was suprised at how well i felt the day after as i was expecting to feel alot worse. OK, so i am very stiff, got achy joints and am pathetically tired, but i was expecting worse. Trick is to pace yourself, if you start feeling a bit achy or tired go and find somewhere to rest for 10-30 minutes, OK 30 minutes seems a long time, but it helps.:)

[Joz]

Thanks everyone, i did go out he he :) and i had a lovely time...luckily my friend alanna is really understanding and we didnt stay out to late...so today i dont feel to bad, im starting to realise that with lupus u just have to take it as it comes...hope your feeling better today mooks and i hope everyone else who went out last night had a good time. Think we just have to stick together :p xxxxxxxxx