i feel unhappy and sad..but i not willing to tell my family

[kellychang]

my conditions is not good recently...my kidney impairment condition is getting serious...my creatine is increase and now is in abnormal range..

i am so sad n unhappy...i dun know how to say to my parents as they r so old already...

i feel sad...i dunno what will happen on me in future...

i hate to admited into hospital again..i hate that...but i dunno...

on the others hand..i also dunno how tell my bf..he v love me...but i really dun want they all feel sad on me anymore..

but ..i m one person now...feel so sad...

[neongirl]

hospitals are no fun, but if that is what it takes to get well, it has to be:( I understand how hard it is to feel like if you tell your family, it will scare or hurt them, but keeping it all inside can be bad for your health. Chances are they already suspect how you are feeling anyway:worried: . I hope the Drs. are able to help you feel better, and stop the kidney problems soon. Sending you hugs and best wishes and luck:)

[peonyprincess]

I believe in keeping my family posted as to what is going on. That way they know if I am not up to par, then they do not expect me to do the normal things that I might do ina days time. Also, they always know how to try and pep me back up.

Family can provide a great support both physically and spiritually. They can be there for you for so many things. By closing them out of your life, it could greatly hurt their feelings. I am sure that they love you dearly and expect to hear the good and the bad things that happen in your life.

As for a potential hospital stay, while no one really enjoys it, it is a means to an end. If you would have to go in, the staff will be able to get things bck in order and under control which will allow you to lead a more normal life and then you, your friends and your family can once again enjoy the good times.


Nancy

[kellychang]

thanks for you guy..

i will be braved till the end...thanks

[Luky]

kelly, are you online? if you are can u plz go into the chat room?

[Luky]

kelly, are you online? if you are can u plz go into the chat room? i wanna talk to you. i just found this site and so i want to get to know more people. i have lived with lupus for 2 yrs now. thankfully for me, no kidney/lung/heart damage. i kind of know how you feel though. i hate it when my family worries about me. Sometimes it makes me sad, but i alo get annoyed because i need them to be strong for me when i cant be strong.

[LolaLola]

Kelly, please find out exactly what the situation is and what the docs can do to help. You need this information and so will those close to you.
I hope you are coping,
x Lola

[kellychang]

thanks everybody..

i will be strong to encounteer all these...