Andrew11
12-04-2007, 02:34 AM
I was wondering if there are any men here with lupus who also have symptoms of ED? I have lupus and have not been officially diagnosed with ED. However, the symptoms of ED are there and I don't want to resort to taking pills but I feel helpless to beat it mentally without some sort of prescription.
I guess the best way to describe it without getting too graphic is that it is nearly impossible to get 100%-I'd say I get about 70% of what I used to be able to ever since lupus symptoms appeared three years ago. And even after the 70% its nearly impossible to keep it there for more than mere seconds.
I am getting married in ten months and I don't want this to inhibit our ability to consummate. My fiance and I are waiting and she already is so patient with my joint pain-I would really feel emasculated if I couldn't perform. Its very difficult to talk about it with her because she doesn't understand, let alone how difficult it is for me to explain it to a woman. Any insight is appreciated!!
I guess the best way to describe it without getting too graphic is that it is nearly impossible to get 100%-I'd say I get about 70% of what I used to be able to ever since lupus symptoms appeared three years ago. And even after the 70% its nearly impossible to keep it there for more than mere seconds.
I am getting married in ten months and I don't want this to inhibit our ability to consummate. My fiance and I are waiting and she already is so patient with my joint pain-I would really feel emasculated if I couldn't perform. Its very difficult to talk about it with her because she doesn't understand, let alone how difficult it is for me to explain it to a woman. Any insight is appreciated!!