Hi, have just been told i may have lupus,waiting to see rehumatologist, son aged 9 diabetic type 1 , mother Thyroid out. Have been treated for Chronic stress disorder for 2 years, Fibromyalgia but just keep getting worse. Thought it was all in my head, blood results show anti nuclear factor. Freezing most of the time but have lots of hot sweats, joint pain severe, tired and worn out with the pain. have had 2 blood clots in legs and 1 in lung after surgery. have had dry eyes for 20 years. full term stillborn and prem twins at 31 weeks both died. have always had back ache or some sort of pain but now it stops me from gardening etc, cannot open jars or bottles never have any physical strength.feel washed out and frustrated . Is this typical or am i just a moaning minnie?