Hi I'm country bumpkin, Iv had weird symptoms going back at least 15 years ,since early 2000,s Iv had numbness that started with lips, then upper an lower,nose,tongue,forehead. Having suffered with cluster migraine for 20+ years. last couple of years much more constant,especially during warm whether. Dry eyes i tolerate till they feel like grit.Butterfly rash on face,but it fades.Hot [email protected] time.Muscle aches an pains to point of crying. what feels like throat constriction.Swollen feet an hands each morning/ fluid retention.A persistent cough IL have all winter,but worse in mornings. feeling really tired,but don't go to sleep easily,then wake in early hour then can fall into heavy sleep when i should be getting up.Arms go dead in the night.Thinning hair,if I'm on feet a while i have profound weakness affecting my whole body,especially in warm weather,its like i need a carer. its depressing and list goes on! How do people on own there handle these symptoms an care for self.I feel like im walking a tight rope.Iv had a positive ana test,but next negative.How positive many tests confirms lupus?