Flares can last a few days to several months to several years. There is often a low level constant set of symptoms like joint pain and fatigue but with a flare they become worse and other symptoms can be added.
Another thought is that her medication could be making her less agreeable as well as her condition. Especially if she is on prednisone, it can make a person quite cranky. Or it could have more to do with relationship issues than anything else. A good, honest, calm discussion explaining how you're feeling and what you see going on while getting her input and point of view (and ackowledging it) can go a long ways to creating a long lasting and happy relationship.
Another thought is that her medication could be making her less agreeable as well as her condition. Especially if she is on prednisone, it can make a person quite cranky. Or it could have more to do with relationship issues than anything else. A good, honest, calm discussion explaining how you're feeling and what you see going on while getting her input and point of view (and ackowledging it) can go a long ways to creating a long lasting and happy relationship.
