Hi there Welcome and CONGRATULATIONS its a girl!! I am sorry to hear about your struggles I know that when I finally got diagnosed after being soo sick for soo long I was glad to have an answer and a name of what was wronge with me and now I have accepted it although I don't like it!! The one thing that gets me is that everything gets blamed on the lupus. Ex Oh you have a hang nail its your lupus acting up, I just TRY to grin and bear it!! Best wishes to your baby girl and I pray that she will keep you strong!!