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Hi there

I am sorry that on top of all you deal with you have to deal with your sister's nonsense.

It does sound like your sister is jealous and maybe just said it out of anger. But she is the one that has to walk around now knowing what she said to you.

If there is something that I have learned through my life time, is we cannot control what others say, but we can control how we are going to react by what they say. Meaning try to let go of her nasty words.

I know that is easier said than done, and I am guilty of not doing just that. But I do say that to myself and do try to get rid of someone's hurtful words.

Sometimes the way I have to do it is say to them how I feel. You really hurt my feelings with you said to me ...... and what you wrote above is perfect to say.

It is hard when family isn't there for you and says stupid things. I am lucky as I have such a close family. I have two sisters and 1 brother and we are all very close and never fight. If we exchange words, it does not last and we make up.

I hope that you can find some peace and get rid of her hurtful words.
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