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well, here I am, sitting here with no job anymore. i've worked for this company for 8 years. Today I went in and my boss fired me on account of me having lupus & being sick sometimes. I know they really can't do that legally, but if I were to sue I'm not sure I would really want my job back anyways. It was way too stressful and I'm wondering if all that stress had an affect on my health. I'm sure it did. The funny part is that I can't decide if I'm happy to not be there anymore or what! I've been in a good mood since it happened. The only thing is that yes, I do worry about what I'm going to do now. But I don't know or don't think I can hold down a full time job. I do have a lot of bad days & can't do anything. How will that affect the new job? Any advice???
 

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thanks for all your replies. i'm doing pretty good today actually. I got outside & did yard work. I got unemployment set up for now, but I probaly will keep looking pretty hard for something. AFTER I take a few weeks off. I am just wondering what that will be like because I won't have stress or not as much anyways and will probably feel alot better. I'm hoping anyways. I will tell my dr. about it, see what she says. I know that she has suggested that I cut back on hours if I could, which I kinda did, but that didn't work out for them. I am going to check into disability. I don't know if they would give it to me or not. The only reason they might is because I know from experience that I get sick, cant' work full time, even if it was part time I can't promise that I would be there on certain days because if it's a bad day I won't be going. My bad days include headaches, aching all over my body to the point of not being able to walk to move my arms & stuff, throwing up, and just plain old tiredness & lack of concentration. I do have at least 2 of these days per week and they are not predictable, so I'm not sure how that will work with a new job. Well, I guess I'll just take it one day at a time & do what I can.
 

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It was a very small company that I worked for, there were about 8 office & about 10 field. It was a remodeling company and I did the design work as well as 2 others. My boss basically said this: It just isn't working out, we need someone who can be here all the time. I was scheduled to work M, W, Th, & F. They gave me Tuesdays off to work from home thinking that if I could have at least one day per week to not have to go into the office it would help. I still did get sick & call in sometimes. I know that they legally can't fire me for being sick, and the more I think about it the madder I get about it. This is a guy who once told me that he would not give me a promotion that I wanted because I was a woman just getting married & didn't know where my life would end up because women usually follow their husband's career!! I let that one go without a fuss too. There was another woman sitting in her office who probably heard the conversation. This company was the cheapest one I can ever imagine. They took away my medical insurance when they found out I had lupus, told me that flex plan was not available even though others had it. I don't know. Part of me wants to let it go & part of me wants to be upset & sue. I am going to make an appt. at the SS office next week. Just even to go talk to someone about where to even start with it. I have had many people tell me to try going on disability with reasons being that I can't handle work & stress. Although I could probably do things still I can not be dependable. If I work one full day usually the next day I can forget about doing anything! I know you all know what that is like. I want to thank you all for your support right now, it means alot to me. JoD, I will check out that site, even if I don't do anything about it, I'm still curious. I understand their point of view, that it is hard to have an employee that calls in sick or works from home or something. But, don't you just wish that for one week, some of these people could experience what we do, just so they have some kind of idea of what it's like. I don't wish for anyone to be sick, but after that 1 week, take it away. That way they might understand. That's a bad thought.
 

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It's so terrible the way that people are treated when they have a disease or disability!!! It's not like we chose to have this! We do the best we can! And now I'm finding that it's difficult to find a new job or to even get help from the state! But the doctor bills keep coming. I'm a lot less stressed out, not having to go to work every day, but now I'm stressing about money. I got a letter from the united hospital foundation the other day asking me to donate money for people who need help with their bills. HELLO!!! I"M RIGHT HERE, I NEED HELP TOO!!! I would like to do something to my old place of work, but still haven't decided on anything yet. Sandy, I'm sorry you also lost your job. Are you doing ok? Lady, if I were to go to the LFA website, do you think I would find help there for what I'm going through? Well, I know I'm not the only one who has problems with working, sounds like quite a few of you do too. Sorry. I'm going to the Mayo clinic tomorrow, I'm going to talk to them there about everything that is going on, maybe get a letter or somethin from them for the state saying that I do have lupus & I do have this & that & yes it is difficult for me to work. Don't know what that will do, but maybe something. Also, do many of you have handicap plates? I find it very difficult to go to the store & I was watching someone else who pulled into a handicap spot & got out & they were limping & just as slow as I was. I'm wondering if I could get some.
 
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