Hi there and welcome to a great forum filled with understanding, knowledgeable, compassionate and friendly people who all understand just how you feel. I am glad you found this place, you will love it here.
WOW, 6 children and some are adopted. That is awesome and you and your hubby are very special people indeed to give kids a home they can call their own. You both deserve a medal.
I do hope to get to know you better. Feel free to join us in the chat room sometime. It is neat there as you can chat with other folks that can answer anything you want to know about and get a immediate response.
The tool bar at the top of the page has the chat room option. Click on it and then click on Enter chat room and BAM, your in. Then you just type away, hit enter and start chating with others in the same boat as your in.
What meds are you on to treat your Lupus and do you like your Rheumatologist? If so then that is half the battle won. A good doctor is hard to find sometimes.
Hope to get to know you better and again, welcome to a great place.:wink2: