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If you have a good doctor, then you may want to bring him into an appointment with you to the rheumy. Sometimes with it coming from a doctor it can kinda force them to understand. Men really want to fix things, including us when we're sick so he is going through a very difficult time on his own right now too I'm sure. Sometimes it's probably harder to feel so helpless and be on the outside....

As time passes, if you have a solid relationship, then the relationship will adjust and grow into what it needs to be given your health situation. Overall it sounds like it is very solid having been 7 years together, so I'm hopeful that time alone will also be helpful.

There are some pinned posts on this forum too such as the spoon theory and letter to normals which you can read for ideas or just print out to give to him.

Good luck - hope it gets sorted out soon.
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