When my lupus flares i often become withdrawn and stand offish, because i cant keep up, even if i want to, and feel i should be able to. i dont want to be a burden and hold people back, I tend to want to try and cope on my own, even though it's probably not the best thing.
You've been given good advice by the others. Just try talking to her, and show her you're willing to try and help her any way she thinks possible.
You've been given good advice by the others. Just try talking to her, and show her you're willing to try and help her any way she thinks possible.