How does everyone manage the energy to maintain the effort it takes to keep you relationship healthy? :help: Right now I don't have the energy to maintain the friendships I have let alone work on finding and keeping an alternative relationship. I barely have the energy to keep myself presentable so that I can stand myself let alone attracting anyone else.:sigh: Right now, at this moment it is easier to be living on my own and depending on the kindness of others, although at times it is very lonely.:worried: But someday I would like to have a closer relationship and perhaps live with someone else and help contribute what I can to the household, share good times and bad, and get a dog again when I can share responsibility.:dog: :dog: :late: Oh, I am sort of just babbling and dreaming about stuff this Sunday afternoon. karly