How active is your husband in your health? I hate feeling like everyone thinks I am faking it - you look fine so why are you always saying you are sick? Or I get the "your sick everyday so whats the difference". I dont get sympathy at home or work because no one knows what I go through on a daily basis or how I feel. I am still expected to do the same things because I have to. I hate feeling like I am complaining to because no one likes a complainer. Can you relate? Do you have advice?