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okay where 2 start... recently i found some man and we have fallen in love with each other. we decided to get engaged, but as a muslim, hes got to go to my parents and ask for my hand in marraige...
as much as i love him, i cant bring myself to tell him about my lupus incase he leaves me. i am quite young, i am 18 and ive had it for two years.
past boyfriends have never known about this and i always knew that one day id be too scared to fall in love because the day will come than i would need to come clean.
my cousin died from lupus when she was 10, but that was a long time ago and my aunt has it. my whole family tell me not to worry, as long as i take my medicine because back then they never had the type of medication i have. bu they dont understand, for me its too hard 2 deal with and explain and its as if they dont listen 2 me.
i want to have children, and i dont know if lupus will affect my chances. i once watched a film about a lesbian couple, the woman gave birth to a little girl, and later on was diagnosed with lupus, she soon died shortly aftre ( may i add that this is a true story)... i want to know will this happen to me? i just want to know... god can only answer that question
this is eating me alive, and i dont know what to do
how do i tell him about my lupus? i never thought it would be so hard. i dont want to keep it from him but im ahving to. and it feels like a dirty secret
as much as i love him, i cant bring myself to tell him about my lupus incase he leaves me. i am quite young, i am 18 and ive had it for two years.
past boyfriends have never known about this and i always knew that one day id be too scared to fall in love because the day will come than i would need to come clean.
my cousin died from lupus when she was 10, but that was a long time ago and my aunt has it. my whole family tell me not to worry, as long as i take my medicine because back then they never had the type of medication i have. bu they dont understand, for me its too hard 2 deal with and explain and its as if they dont listen 2 me.
i want to have children, and i dont know if lupus will affect my chances. i once watched a film about a lesbian couple, the woman gave birth to a little girl, and later on was diagnosed with lupus, she soon died shortly aftre ( may i add that this is a true story)... i want to know will this happen to me? i just want to know... god can only answer that question
this is eating me alive, and i dont know what to do
how do i tell him about my lupus? i never thought it would be so hard. i dont want to keep it from him but im ahving to. and it feels like a dirty secret