I've not dated with a lupus diagnosis (was married just 6 months before!) but my thoughts on it would be to wait a few weeks to a few months before discussing lupus unless you feel comfortable discussing the subject before then. This way, you have some time to figure out how much you like a guy, and how much he likes you. Enough time to know that he is a keeper in your eyes, but not too much time to feel like you're withholding important information from him.
There was a thread last year about this, but after a brief search I had a hard time locating it. Maybe someone else will have a better memory than me & be able to find it. There were lots of good opinions and thoughts in that thread - that much I do remember!
Good luck with this - I'm sure you'll find a great guy sometime soon.
There was a thread last year about this, but after a brief search I had a hard time locating it. Maybe someone else will have a better memory than me & be able to find it. There were lots of good opinions and thoughts in that thread - that much I do remember!
Good luck with this - I'm sure you'll find a great guy sometime soon.