I was dxs with lupus nearly 2 years ago it was a shock at the time.Then i found this site and things didnt seem so bad .I met some really nice and helpful people here.The thing that has kept me going most of all is my little dog alfie he is with me all the time and cuddles me when i am not feeling good he seems to no when im not well it must be instinct with him thank goodness for animals .