Hi and welcome to the site!
I hope you are receiving good treatment from your specialists with the diagnoses of both and that the correct meds for each are working well!
When did you get diagnosed with MS and when with Lupus....which one came first!
This is a lovely site with lots of lovely members to offer support, also has a great chat room!
I do know that Inverness has an extremely good MS Support Centre and wont turn you away just because you have Lupus too...do you ever go there?
Perhaps Inverness may have a Lupus support group active, contact
http://www.lupusuk.org.uk/regional-group-finder for advice on this! If nothing is listed on the map, just give the main number a call for extra information!
Take care,