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My Answer to Relationships and Lupus

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Is to swear off men! At least for this year! lol (That was my new year's resolution... to remain single this year!)

I'm about to be 28, and I'm so tired of all these "men" not knowing how to deal or even understand what I'm going through... I'm not asking for much.... but they expect so much of me that I cant do/provide.

I had a great relationship...the only guy I ever thought I would want to spend my life with.... after five years... left me at my lowest point of my life. (Think I called him when I was at the doctors saying I didnt feel well... then I had to be rushed to the ER from the doctor's office...and because they thought I was having a heart attack, they would not allow me to use my phone because of all the heart monitors and machine.... then when I finally get a hold of him the next day.. he calls me an 'effing liar." Sweet eh?)

Since then I jumped from relationships to relationships... never truly happy... and maybe now I'm starting to think and believe I have to deal with this myself and accept myself totally before getting into any more relationships?

I HATE MEN.... :lol:
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I just want to say that I feel your pain...fortunately I have a husband who is very understanding and we both love our independence but are here for each other...we don't even sleep in the same bedroom anymore but it is the best thing we have done for our friendship/relationship/marriage...this summer it will be 25 years and it is all good...I am up late at night since I don't work and he goes to bed at 9:30 - 10:00 to be up at 5:00am...we still do lots of things together and lots of things apart depending on what it is...
So don't beat yourselves up...go right into any relationship with two important and understanding...and stay independent but don't cheat, lie or be rude to each other...(that comes when you get older-hehehe-and you don't hear each other anymore...LOL)
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