Reading others stories seem to help me so will write my story in hopes of helping others. It all started at the age of 17 one day playin a game of baseball the next day i had 2 swollen ankles then it hit swollen joints high fevers major weight and muscle loss life as i knew it was over.Being a teenager i was in denial i wasn't gonna change i still tried keepin up with friends partyin stayin up late tryin to work a full time job basically killin myself the way i look at it now. So after years of struggling with the disease bouncin from job to job never really gettin close to anyone cause it's easier alone i gave up one day i quit taken the prednisone aand plaqunil after being on them for 5 yrs and guess what i got better i dont know how or why never went back to doctor have led a reasonably normal life with lupus uup until this point in time now i get a good night sleep every night no alchohol or drugs or smokes eat healthy i've been able to hold a job and live a somewhat normal life for 10 yrs no meds which i never would of thought possible in the beginning. And i am very thankful for that am now 33 and seeing some complications low platelets so am back on prednisone and seein doctors. i know how hard it can be for a young man to get lupus not many out there so if i can ever help any body i would like to cause i never had any ,never even met anyone else with lupus. this is just my story it affects all differently it seems and i dont recomend not takin meds. keep fighting Dan