Hello and welcome 
I'm sorry to hear what brings you here but want to reassure you, it will get better!!
From the sound of your sypmtoms it certainly sounds like you need a referral to a rheumatologist. I presume the unhelpful doctor is not one?
On the whole most docs know little or nothing about auto-immune diseases which are extremely complex.
I know that it is not necessarily easy to find a rheumatologist specialised in auto-immune diseases but there is a section on this board where you can post to "find a lupus doctor". it would be a very good idea to post there (even if you are already seeing a rheumy - as a second opinion seems necessary).
If I understand correctly someone suspects an auto-immune disease but you haven't been started on any treatment?
Feel free to ask plenty of questions, we're here to help as much as we can.
In the meantime, I'll send lots of hugs and virtual Belgian chocolates as it sounds like you are in great need!! :hug:
Katharine
I'm sorry to hear what brings you here but want to reassure you, it will get better!!
From the sound of your sypmtoms it certainly sounds like you need a referral to a rheumatologist. I presume the unhelpful doctor is not one?
On the whole most docs know little or nothing about auto-immune diseases which are extremely complex.
I know that it is not necessarily easy to find a rheumatologist specialised in auto-immune diseases but there is a section on this board where you can post to "find a lupus doctor". it would be a very good idea to post there (even if you are already seeing a rheumy - as a second opinion seems necessary).
If I understand correctly someone suspects an auto-immune disease but you haven't been started on any treatment?
Feel free to ask plenty of questions, we're here to help as much as we can.
In the meantime, I'll send lots of hugs and virtual Belgian chocolates as it sounds like you are in great need!! :hug:
Katharine