:lol:my name is Maria, i am 39 and18months :lol:i have s.l.e .I am married with 3children ages 17/15/13. they take very good care of me when my husband is away,that's most of the time. I live in scotland and would like to find someone in my area with lupus to talk to as i get very lonley at times. No one ever seems to understand how i feel and think i should just stop being lazey and get on with stuff.:sad:I wish i could. My G P has just refered me to the leisure centre for muscle toning as i have very weak leg muscles that makes walking hard.So my first gym session is on monday,wish me luck.