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For me it would depend no how long I was thinking of seeing him for.

If it was likely to be a short term thing I would definitely not bother, and just enjoy the moment.

HOWEVER! Since you are talking about marriage and considering him as a potential/possible long term suitor you might as well get it off your chest ... sooner rather than later.

If it bothers him, he's not for you becasue as a marriage prospect he absolutelty has to be supportive or you'll both be miserable. He might even feel a bit cheated if he gets really attached and then you coose to tell him once he's 'hooked' so to speak.

I do think honesty is the best policy, but it is entirely up to us when we choose to share personal information, and there's nothing wrong with that. It is nobody else's business ... unless they are going to have to share it with us. Then i do think they should be fore warned. But - what's the hurry?

How's that for mixed messages?

Good luck, and let us know how it is going - it's so long since i dated i have forgotten what it's like! I think it was always supposed to be fun though!

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