Sorry to say but people just don’t get Lupus! If u tell them anything they look at u like u have 2 heads! Oh but u look good, and I am dying inside!How do you get people to understand our fatigue. I work 40 plus hours a week and try to do as much as I can and my bf thinks I don't do enough or clean enough. I try explaining I'm at my limit and I'm so exhausted n he thinks I'm lazy.