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They cant understand..... my hubby loves me and takes good care of me but he doesnt get it either! I have to remind him often that I am not who I used to be. I can tell he just doesn't totally get it but just gives in to avoid an argument. I sometimes wish he could walk in my shoes just one day............
writting him an email from the heart really worked for us, like I said there will still be tough days beacause they will never fully understand but it will help. My hubby doesnt like to be confronted, he always starts to defend himself so the email route worked for us :) It gave him time to think and take it in. Maybe you can give that a try.
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