Michelle, thank you for posting about your experience, it does help a lot to actually hear from someone who has had the surgery and is ok

. I hadn't thought about the possibility of the glands getting necrotic, ICK!
Lily, thank you for the excellent article

. It is a lot more in depth than what I have been finding on my own. The lithotripsy sounds interesting, and I had not thought about massage, but I will try it to see what happens before my second opinion appt..
rwb200, Thank you for sharing your wife's experience with me, I hope something similar happens to me:fingers: .
Clare, I am hoping the second Dr. will be able to offer a less dramatic way to resolve this:worried: I am wondering if part of the reason I have felt so tired and feverish every day is because of having a chronic infection all this time and not because of Lupus. My bloodwork for Lupus has been coming back normal, yet I have still had a fever and fatigue. It would be great if when this gets resolved, the fever and fatigue go away too
