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I think this is about whinning but then I am not sure
in the last two and half weeks. my best friend passed away, then last week another friend, then yesterday my Uncle
with the stress of Christmas and holidays and losing two of my best friends, I just needed to talk to someone. and being here for five years means a sercurity blanket where I can express myself.

my best friend was my venting partner, so I cant tell her how much I miss her. and ask her what I am suppposed to do without her. that is so selfish, wishing she was here to ask her advice

I know she would be saying , give yourself a kick and get on with it
love can be painful but I would never wantt to have missed her friendship
even if this is the pain you feel when they are gone
is there a hidden message in this text. perhaps it is way of saying good-bye to her from here

God Bless my deepest friend
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I am so sorry that you have had to deal with 3 deaths of loved ones so close together. I agree with Maia, you gave your self great advice.

It is a tough time of the year with the holidays so close to have to miss someone you loved so dearly. I am sorry that your hurting but know that your friend is at peace and looking down on you right now. She does not want you to be sad and your probably right in that she would tell you to pick your self up and give you a good, swift butt kick.:lol:

Hold her memory close to your heart as that in itself is a gift.

I wish you well moving forward through the holiday season and light a candle for your friend in her memory and say a prayer for her. It has always helped me to do that when I loose a close friend or family member.

Keep your chin up and come here to vent as much as you need to. We are here for you!!!:wink2:
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