Well in the last two years my life has completely changed. Not because of my illness but because of it I can't help my husband out either.
It all started when my husband lost his job after 13 years. He is the one that supports us and has our health care. I was working for the same company at home doing paperwork for them. But they fired me also. We had enough savings and some stocks to help us out in the beginning, but now after two years things are getting pretty tight. He was able to get another job very quickly but it came with a big pay cut and now we pay for our own health care. That cost is around elven thousand dollars a year.
We have a couple of options right now that are really splitting us down the middle.
He has a option of opening his own business which is good and I know he would make it. But and there is a but it would mean long hours 10-12 a day six days a week. Plus bring home paper work daily. He says that he would make me a office with a couch and comfortable surroundings. But that would mean long days for me and no way to get home if I didn't feel well.
The other option is moving to Georgia. We would live with his god-brother and his wife and three children. Hubby would be a el and home automation install in new construction. He would have a bigger paycheck, paid health care and shorter work days. I would be a nanny three days a week to there kids and get paid to boot.
So I am in a rock in a hard place. I can't tell him which to take because he is the bread winner. So any advice would help me greatly.
It all started when my husband lost his job after 13 years. He is the one that supports us and has our health care. I was working for the same company at home doing paperwork for them. But they fired me also. We had enough savings and some stocks to help us out in the beginning, but now after two years things are getting pretty tight. He was able to get another job very quickly but it came with a big pay cut and now we pay for our own health care. That cost is around elven thousand dollars a year.
We have a couple of options right now that are really splitting us down the middle.
The other option is moving to Georgia. We would live with his god-brother and his wife and three children. Hubby would be a el and home automation install in new construction. He would have a bigger paycheck, paid health care and shorter work days. I would be a nanny three days a week to there kids and get paid to boot.
So I am in a rock in a hard place. I can't tell him which to take because he is the bread winner. So any advice would help me greatly.